Here "Los Monstruos" won the award for best musical in the 2016 Premios Hugo. Photo by Alfredo Luna. |
The play follows the lives of a single dad, Claudio, and his son, paralleled with a mother, Sandra, and her daughter (the dad is a deadbeat who is only referred to). Claudio was played by Argentine actor Mariano Chiesa, while Sandra was played by Argentine actress Natialia Cociuffo. Both have "exceptional" kids: "Ni peor, ni mejor...distinto". Obviously, this is in the eye of the beholder. It's true. Each parent tends to believe their children are unique and outstanding. But their uniqueness creates problems at school. We learn that the dad has a problem with his son because he doesn't defend himself and others bully him. The mother has a hard time with her tomboy daughter who is invited to parties out of "pity". Each parent tries to make the best with their current situation, but they begin to unravel as the play develops. Eventually, the father snaps, and we learn at the end that instead of a life-threatening fight at school, he's actually the reason his son is in the hospital. On the other hand, the mother is in the hospital, awaiting the recovery of her husband, because her daughter pushed him down the stairs. At the end, we learn that the parents are the ones with the problems, and not so much their children. Or, their children were to become a product of their parenting. Either way, it's definitely not a happy ending.
Mariano Chiesa as Claudio, next to Natalia Cociuffo as Sandra. Photo taken from: El Mostrador, Argentina. |
I have to be honest. When I see productions like these, it makes me reevaluate my own position as husband and father. Their kids, on the surface, are everything to them, but underlying it all is their forgotten selves. You could almost argue that their children become their obsessions that end up hurting both their children and themselves. After seeing this production, I've reflected on moments when I raise my voice or get frustrated with my children. How far away am I from becoming like them? It's a scary thought, but I at least find solace in the fact that I can reflect on this development before it is too late. And yes, my kids mean the world to me. And yes, they are special.